Under Darwin’s Theory of Evolution, we as living beings are programmed to do everything we can to create and preserve life. Our instincts are our hidden inner allies that help us ensure that by having us go towards things we enjoy and away from things that bring us pain. We Read more…
A wide-spead pattern I keep encountering in my coaching work is people feeling they are ‘wasting their time’ (i.e. their life) on doing things they feel they shouldn’t be doing. Sometimes it’s ‘boring work’, sometimes it’s ‘colleagues interrupting me’, sometimes it’s ‘I am not progressing fast enough on this project Read more…
What do you really really want right now? It might sound like a simple question, but to me it has turned out to be a very tricky one. As I dug inside myself to figure out why, I stumbled across a phenomenon I call ‘desentivizing’. It’s very easy to understand Read more…